You and just you

Will you change? Will you be here when I need you? Is there an unknown hidden you?

Who are you? Why do I love you? Who will you be in twenty years?

But wait a second. You are yourself and I love you.

“Never love someone whom you think you need to mend – or who makes you feel like you should be mended” Caitlin Moran



Break Up


You do not break up a relationship.

The bound of love is unbreakable.

You never cut all ties, even silence between two former lovers is a link.

Memories might be socially constructed, they are emotionally bound.


Do I love you or do I just want to love?

Feeling loved but feeling lonely.

Feeling loved for someone you ought to be but not for who you are. Not knowing who you are anymore.

Feeling loved but feeling like a trophy.

Staying just because there is love. Any kind of love. Just to love and be loved, but who do you love if you love the relationship but not you in the relationship?



Break up


Is love a machine?

A beautiful relationship would require the skills to know when the lights need to be changed, or the cables fixed.

When it is time to slow down the machinery and enjoy.

The only problem is that even the most talented love mechanics can never anticipate when the power goes off.

La demeure d’un ciel


Taking this step, following this path. Knowing where we are going. Not knowing what we are missing.

A relationship = active steps to reach a shared intimacy, a place in which the wellbeing of each and both is the priority.

Climbing stairs next to each other with the possibility of Uturns, stops and jumps. Eyes, minds and hearts open to learn along the way.