Thank you

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Love so fulfilling, you do not have enough heart space to receive it

Love so simple, you do not need words to express it

Love so deep, you only need to be next to one another

Thank you friends and family. The only thing I need to consume is time with you.

Continuity

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Can you love today what you hated yesterday?

How unpredictable and predictable can we be?

Are sudden life changes U-turns or do they reflect uncertainties you were hiding and/or problems you did not want to solve?

U-turns might exist, but so does deliberate blindness. Blindness to who you are and whom you do not want to accept to be.

Break up

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Is love a machine?

A beautiful relationship would require the skills to know when the lights need to be changed, or the cables fixed.

When it is time to slow down the machinery and enjoy.

The only problem is that even the most talented love mechanics can never anticipate when the power goes off.

Amor Fati

The love of everything that is going to happen – the love of risks

The trust in risking to lose everything but yourself.

“What does not kill you makes you stronger” (Nietzsche)

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Us

Txoria Txori: “If I had cut off the bird’s wings, It would have been mine, It would not have flown away… But having done that, It would not have been a bird anymore and it is the bird that I loved”

You came into my world. I felt like it was through the back door but you are already part of all the rooms in my world. I have to admit you are here, there, everywhere. Admit that the doors are always open and that now, here, there, my house will never be the same because our house is wider, better.

Tomorrow, in two decades, or in a few seconds, you might open the door or break our house. But only because it became a prison or an ugly tiny space and I did not want to see this. You and I still see through our own lenses. But as long as the door is open and the house is glorious, we will see and feel together.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: “Because she did not expect or ask for certainty, it made a certain kind of sureness become possible”

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La demeure d’un ciel

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Taking this step, following this path. Knowing where we are going. Not knowing what we are missing.

A relationship = active steps to reach a shared intimacy, a place in which the wellbeing of each and both is the priority.

Climbing stairs next to each other with the possibility of Uturns, stops and jumps. Eyes, minds and hearts open to learn along the way.