Will you change? Will you be here when I need you? Is there an unknown hidden you?
Who are you? Why do I love you? Who will you be in twenty years?
But wait a second. You are yourself and I love you.
“Never love someone whom you think you need to mend – or who makes you feel like you should be mended” Caitlin Moran
Me, you, us and what you would like me and us to be…
Balance, limits. This is who I am and who I want to remain.
Feeling, sharing. This is who I think I should be to please you.
But Us is just the mix of you and me, an ongoing and flexible construction, not a predefined condition.
When you die, we say you rest
Not because you will wake up again
Because in our hearts, our love for you never dies.
You do not break up a relationship.
The bound of love is unbreakable.
You never cut all ties, even silence between two former lovers is a link.
Memories might be socially constructed, they are emotionally bound.
Feeling loved but feeling lonely.
Feeling loved for someone you ought to be but not for who you are. Not knowing who you are anymore.
Feeling loved but feeling like a trophy.
Staying just because there is love. Any kind of love. Just to love and be loved, but who do you love if you love the relationship but not you in the relationship?
There is a demon in each of us.
Fearing the demon inside us
will only make it
Stronger and scarier…
Anchored. We are. Together.
Anchored in my body and my memories. You will be. Always.
Anchored together forever. We will never know.
But this fear should not anchor us in dark words and moments.
Now. Us. Only now!
The past – pleasant memories. The future – will see…
Relying on current intuitions to understand love.
Projections into a common future might reassure. But they do not explain what can only be felt.
According to Vasconcelos, emotions are an essential factor of knowledge.
“Freedom is freedom of being, not freedom of having” – Ugo Mattei
We have a limited amount of resources left. Why don’t we share?
Nature and people must come first.
Without them, you can have it all but you will be nothing.
Freedom comes with responsibility
Love so fulfilling, you do not have enough heart space to receive it
Love so simple, you do not need words to express it
Love so deep, you only need to be next to one another
Thank you friends and family. The only thing I need to consume is time with you.