You and just you

Will you change? Will you be here when I need you? Is there an unknown hidden you?

Who are you? Why do I love you? Who will you be in twenty years?

But wait a second. You are yourself and I love you.

“Never love someone whom you think you need to mend – or who makes you feel like you should be mended” Caitlin Moran

 

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Continuity

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Can you love today what you hated yesterday?

How unpredictable and predictable can we be?

Are sudden life changes U-turns or do they reflect uncertainties you were hiding and/or problems you did not want to solve?

U-turns might exist, but so does deliberate blindness. Blindness to who you are and whom you do not want to accept to be.

Break up

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Is love a machine?

A beautiful relationship would require the skills to know when the lights need to be changed, or the cables fixed.

When it is time to slow down the machinery and enjoy.

The only problem is that even the most talented love mechanics can never anticipate when the power goes off.

On change(s)

Naomi Klein argued that during a shock, we can not oppose much resistance.

After a shock, do we change?

Where do our minds and hearts land back?

Can they come back to the past reality or do they make up a new reality?

Is a shock a serie of tiny changes played in fast motion?

Impossible to provide a black and white answer…

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