An earthquake breaks the earth open. To remind you that Nature is strong. A burn out breaks your mind open. To remind you that you are fragile...
Will you change? Will you be here when I need you? Is there an unknown hidden you?
Who are you? Why do I love you? Who will you be in twenty years?
But wait a second. You are yourself and I love you.
“Never love someone whom you think you need to mend – or who makes you feel like you should be mended” Caitlin Moran
Wealth is in the eye of the person who spots gold in people,
Not in the pocket of the person who owns.
Anchored. We are. Together.
Anchored in my body and my memories. You will be. Always.
Anchored together forever. We will never know.
But this fear should not anchor us in dark words and moments.
Can you love today what you hated yesterday?
How unpredictable and predictable can we be?
Are sudden life changes U-turns or do they reflect uncertainties you were hiding and/or problems you did not want to solve?
U-turns might exist, but so does deliberate blindness. Blindness to who you are and whom you do not want to accept to be.
Naomi Klein argued that during a shock, we can not oppose much resistance.
After a shock, do we change?
Where do our minds and hearts land back?
Can they come back to the past reality or do they make up a new reality?
Is a shock a serie of tiny changes played in fast motion?
Impossible to provide a black and white answer…